As more and more people try online dating, getting a firm grip of the dating rules is somewhat difficult. Dating should be fun and it should be an enjoyable experience while you’re looking for a potential partner for life. But knowing the rules should reduce the anxiety and pressure that often come with dating. Our new system can help you do this. It teaches you the right’s and wrongs of female interaction.
Get to know your date better. Read your date’s profile so you’ll know how to angle your conversations in a way that your date can relate and enjoy. A better understanding of your date will also help you choose the right activity, time and venue for the date. However, make sure to consider your date’s suggestions too.
Be safe. You might both feel at ease if your first date is in a public venue. Make sure to inform a friend, roommate, or anyone you trust about your dating plans and its venue.
Look your best. Dress appropriately. Groom yourself and wear the right clothes, but don’t stifle your personality from showing through. Spend enough time in preparation for your date.
Be courteous. Compliment your date and be friendly, happy, and positive. Men should be a gentleman by opening a door for her, holding her chair, and walking her to the car. Women should be accepting of these gentlemanly gestures.
Be attentive. Show interest in what your date is talking about. Maintain eye contact, nod when necessary, ask questions, offer insights, and tell your date interesting things. Don’t keep looking at your phone. It’s rude to do so.
Be yourself. Tell your date that you are going to call him or her if you want to go on a second date and honor your words. Otherwise, let the other party know that you might not go out again.
Contact your date. You can call or send him/her an email as a thank you for your great time together.
Don’t be late. Prepare hours before your date and give enough allowance for your travel time to avoid being late. If you can’t avoid being late, call him/her about it.
Don’t discuss topics that are too serious. Avoid talking about religion, politics, money, and exes. First dates should be fun and light, so talk about the latest movies, sports, or books.
Don’t be overly intimate at once. Trying to squeeze in some PDA would be a turn off on a first date.
Don’t’ make yourself too available. This will make you less of a mystery. It might ruin the thrill that often comes after first dates. Limit yourself to a few calls, texts or emails.
Don’t pretend to be someone else you’re not. Be yourself. If your date doesn’t like you, look for another possible date.
Don’t feel too pressured. A first date should be fun. Stop worrying about every little thing. Don’t be too forward about sex or even a kiss. Don’t let the presents out right away until you’re both comfortable.
Don’t be overly jealous. If you met some of your date’s friends, even those of the opposite sex, don’t feel jealous. Doing so will show that you’re confident and mature.
Don’t date married people. This will surely give both of you a lot of heartaches and problems.