Your date will fail or succeed, not only based on the factors of the actual day. The things that occur before the actual date may also determine its success. If you want to increase your chances of getting a great first date, the following things might help. The Female Mind Mastery is a tool that can help you take the right step.
Choose the Right Venue
First dates are very special so it should be held in a well thought-out location. You might think of a fine hotel, classy restaurant, theater, or tourist spot. But these venues are all too formal for a first date. You’d want to be relaxed and to have fun, so good choices would be a coffee shop, a pub, an art gallery, or any place where you can just be yourself. Even if your date is the one calling the shots, prepare to make a few suggestions and find a place that you both like.
Set the Right Time
Aside from the major decision involved in choosing the location of the date, setting the time for the date is as important. You might think weekend night, when both of you are free and you won’t be pressured about going home early because there’s no work the next day. However, this is not an ideal arrangement, especially when most people make advanced plans for their weekends. Instead, schedule your date on a weekday, when most nights are free. It could be an afternoon lunch or a short dinner date.
Value the Importance of Patience
As a man, you have to give more options to your date. She might not be available on some days or may not like some venues. Her saying no shouldn’t be interpreted so negatively. Instead, tell her that you would really like to meet with her and that you are willing to wait until her schedule clears up. For your side, you should not be too available either to avoid being a turn off.
Prepare Yourself to Answer Job-related Questions
Women usually love ambitious men. Telling her that you’re currently skateboarding most of your time, while pulling off part time work might put you at risk of being turned down. Instead, figure out the direction of your professional life. Give her an idea that you really have plans for the future.
Make Some Preparations
It’s not enough that you’re dressed up nicely with perfect grooming. You should also prepare possible topics to keep your conversations going. Imagine how awkward it would be to suddenly grow silent because you have nothing to talk about. Ask her questions and do your best to answer hers.
Put Your Best Foot Forward
Dress up nicely. Get a haircut. Clean your nails and teeth. Whiten your teeth, if necessary. Shave! Take a shower to smell clean and fresh. Women love it. Most of all, freshen your breath.